ajobbins: Bigots make me shudder and feel ill, much as the gays make you feel. Bigotry is icky and wrong (IMHO). however I do not seek to deny you the right to marry the one you love if you choose to do so (or anything else for that matter).
One example of bigotry: Westboro Baptist Church.
Years ago "good" people didn't want women to vote.
Years ago "good" people wanted black people to sit in the back of the bus.
Times change. "Good" people have to change.