Yeah I actually feel more relaxed now I had a rant at both of them. Im going to give up worrying about it.
The funny thing is if you go bigpipe, first level fibre costs $79 where as the VDSL costs $89. I think im heading their direction.
I won't comment on BP's pricing.
However, Historically chorus charged another 10$ for VDSL as they bundled a master filter installation.