Fred99: Look for it yourself - then disprove what I've said. I'm not going searching for a needle (which I don't believe exists) in a haystack just to refute your claim that in NZ someone could sue for non-payment of dowry or breach of some agreement if an engagement to marry is called off.
No sorry - I won't PM you my real name. You make me feel uncomfortable.
So just to recap, you're representing yourself as an expert in New Zealand law, but you won't identify yourself and you are asking me to substantiate your [legal] opinion. I suspect I do make you uncomfortable, because you wonder if I'm just another one of the voices in your head.
Mod Note MM: Friends don't let friends quote irresponsibly.