also i can't live with doing everything on the ipad. i need dials and buttons.
Tesla is pretty out there when what you have to do via the screen, but other manufacturers are going that way too. So soon you won't be able to deal with a modern car if you have to have physical dials and buttons.
luckily a car is just being made that doesn't need you to use an ipad to move the seats or turn on the wipers