I think you need to take a step back from being so forthcoming with information that may link you back to personal profiles in the first instance. A lot of people know me here personally from a previous username and I changed it to this one, Not for any specific reason but just to disassociate my actual name from the internet. Still, 90% of people here can find me on facebook if they wanted too and my mobile number with ease.
Its just about not making yourself a target for others to mess with and not exhibiting a narcissistic personality. No one here (or they would be banned quick smart) will target you or cause you grief.
It seems you enjoy doing what you do and should keep at it, you just need to find the community that wants to receive your content and input in a positive way.
Best of luck.