Nah the Fibaro 2x1.5kW relay is the most you will get in a single module.
The Fibaro Rollershutter 2 has built-in support for UP/DOWN control (no STOP). Have you looked at those as another potential solution?
They look pretty quiet/good from your video - nice work!
Cheers. No haven't looked into the Rollershutter. I am really digging Fibaro gear, while on the expensive side, you can see why - its top quality kit, well built and mega flexible. Very tempted to go to the Home Center 2 and ditching OpenHAB
Anyways maybe an ESP8266 with MQTT could be the go, would be mega cheap and easy as to build. I only have a 2 block relay and Arduino sitting on my desk at the moment, but that should make for a good start - if I have time I'll just mash something up quick tonight and see how it goes. The Rollertrol group controller is pretty small (about the size of 2 matchboxes next to each other) photo below with the cover ripped off. Could quite easily integrate this with an ESP and relay then tuck this away in the cupboard somewhere. Just wish my 3D printer would *#$% turn up!