Wow I'm so overwhelmed by all the great advice we're getting, thank you.
I've told the wife about the Unimom forte breast pump and she seems impressed with the great reviews it's receiving.
Personally I think I'm more inclined to get just an audio baby monitor with a thermometer than a video at least for now as I think the video would distract me and I'd find myself watching all the time, I can always set up a video feed with an old phone if I feel the need.
Not too worried about the nappy bins as the baby's room is right next an outside door so will be easy enough to just keep a bin directly outside, the change table is setup right next to the door anyway.
Quite interesting about what goes on in different cities hospitals I will have to ask the midwife about Dunedin's process.
When breast feeding their sh*t doesn't really stink - honestly!
Gets a bit smelly with the formula. But when they start on food... OMG it's rank.