wasabi2k: Any local firewalling on the PC you are trying to set it up on?

Did you hard reset the AP back to default config or just a soft reset?

Does the AP show up in the controller software at all? Pending? Read to Adopt?

When you SSH what credentials are you using?

When you SSH what is the inform URL the AP is looking for?

If you have local DNS create an entry for unifi pointing to your PC and reboot the AP.

Did a Hard Reset.

No local DNS. SSH Creds are the ones I set the device up with when I configured it on the notebook. 
The AP doesn't show up in the controller software on the PC but does on the notebook (after a factory reset). 

How do I determine what the inform url is?