I'm not sure whats up with Mike. He has not replied so we can assume he has been hospitalised. As those who have been on here for a while, Mike is wheelchair user and takes serious pills. At some point he may be able to reply, but I hope the thoughts that have been conveyed here do help. Many of us agree, discuss, disagree, but I am sure all of us can agree that we see MikeB4 as the mature and grounded person that he is.
Cheers to Mike and his family