Thanks for the replies.
While I haven't quite gone down the rabbit hole yet, I have spent the last couple of weeks thinking, looking around the house, and doing some simple experimentation. I needed to replace some old incandescent bulbs with LEDs so I dipped a toe into the Arlec Grid Connect products. I bought six E27 RGB bulbs, and downloaded the Grid Connect app. It's not as polished as Hue, but it has simple enough functionality. Since installing them, I've watched a range of videos on Youtube about the products, but there aren't too many about the Grid Connect range - as Tuya-compatible products, though, it seems like there is a lot of potential there.
The whole Tuya-HA story is intriguing. I don't have the full picture, but there were some interesting videos from Smart Home channels talking about improvements to the Tuya integration in HA. I saw one from October last year that suggested that the official Tuya integration on HA has now been fully approved by HA (as compared to the HACS v2 integration - which I don't know much about, but it sounds like it was an "unofficial" way of providing functionality not provided through the standard integration). There was also a video suggesting that local access for Tuya via HA is coming (and I think, in one video, there was a method of obtaining keys for local access via a Tuya developer account). All of this makes me sound like I know what I'm talking about, but to be honest I don't really know. I haven't got round to installing HA yet - though I have got my Synology NAS back, and it looks like I might be able to install Docker (another thing I know nothing about) on my NAS and then run HA via Docker. This would give me something to play around with and work out what will work best for me. For now, all I have to play with is a handful of these Grid Connect bulbs and a couple of Hue bulbs I have lying around. But maybe it will clear some stuff up for me about what I need and what I want to do, and whether I can do that via HA.
On top of this, I got an electrician to quote on some small jobs. Some of the recessed light fittings in my lounge are flickering (and may be the reason why the Grid Connect bulbs didn't work properly in there) so I got a quote to fix that, including the option to install proper LED downlights. I've got the quote, and now I'm looking at options to jump right into smart downlights. There is a Deta product available via Bunnings which is only $10 more expensive than the "dumb" lights quoted by the electrician, but provides CCT+RGB and as a Grid Connect product presumably is Tuya compatible. I've been wondering whether I could purchase these retail and ask the electrician to install. Provided Tuya would actually play nice with HA down the road (hence my research in this area above), this could be a reasonably good investment. This led me to look at Deta smart switches, which I could get installed by the electrician at the same time, but I haven't found out too much about those yet. When I was briefing the electrician for the scope of works I wanted quotes on, she suggested I look at PDL Iconic switches, but I couldn't find much about the Iconic range to indicate what type of system it uses, and how it would integrate with HA or other smart systems. I also stumbled on something called the Flic switch. They look interesting - a bit like an Amazon Dash button - but I'm guessing the site is priced in US dollars, meaning switches would probably cost up to $40 each, which could get quite pricey for the whole house.
I guess the questions I'm left with are fairly general. For instance, is running HA in Docker on a Synology NAS a good idea? What is the current thinking about Tuya integration in HA - are the issues being resolved? What about local vs cloud access? If the Grid Connect/Tuya products are problematic, what is a good alternative light product? I haven't looked into the Shelly option in depth, but if I wanted to dip a toe in there for a single light fitting, which relay would I buy and is it simple/legal for a homeowner to install themselves?

