networkn:So in the end I found a $1200 LG Soundbar going for $400 right after xmas that was a year old.
It's 9.1.3 and is absolutely much bigger than I thought/wanted, but it's plenty loud, is very decent for music, has WiFi and Bluetooth and loads of settings for all sorts of situations. It's better than what I had, but not home theatre quality and atmos is very average even in an high end product.
Sounds like a good solution for you.
I’m not really surprised about Atmos. It’s pretty hard to do bouncey Atmos unless you have a perfect room.
Enjoy.