+1 for the Sony XM4.
I’ve had the XM2 and XM3. I had some flybuys and got the XM5 but the head band wasn’t as padded as the XM3 (hurt the top of my head - doesn’t help that there isn’t a lot of hair there anymore 😂) so gave them to daughter and went back to XM3. Then I went Bose QC and found them too hot for my ears, however they are just as good as the Sony ones. Gave those to other daughter who is heading to the UK. She seems to like them. I have settled on the XM4, they are great. I have tried them all on flights and the NC is great on them all.
Definitely recommend going in and trying them out first.