chiefie: i know Samsung has one... not sure it is still available or not but they're the only one to do HDMI output.
Sony has a DVD/HDD recorder, their RDR-HX1010 model which has all the thing you want. but not too sure about upscaling though.
I purchased a Samsung HD841 (US model) when I was over there. Then flashed the firmware with modified firmware from another Samsung player (can't remember) so that the player could output 720p and 1080i over component and play Divx.
But the norm is usually not to be able to upscale over component