Right after long last i have sorted i have sort out how to get Mms to work on this phone .
Only took about a month but hey here you got and i hope it helps other people .


SO ..........

Go to Mms Settting

the go to mmsc Setting

Goto menu the go Add .
 Profile name : VFPXT

MMSC : http:\\.pxt.vodafone.net.nz/pxtsend
Data connection : VF WAP .( you have to donwload it from wireless.vodafone.co.nz) One of the HTC setting as some have them has windows on them.
Gateway : WAP 2.0 Gate way
Ip address 173.30.38.3
Port: 8080
Encoding : binary


Then under connection .
GPRS

Connect to
VF WAP Which when you downloaded .

Access point
Live.vodafone.com

Leave everything blank.
Authentication
None.
Ip Address
172.030.038.003

Under Proxy

Add.

VF WAP
connect from
The internet
Connect to: WAP Network

Proxy name :port
172.030.038.003:9201 ( Dont ask why thats different port )
Type:WAP

leave the rest blank .

So there you have it so that all works sweet as wit the net as well as  this phone picks up on automatic setting under opera or explorer or google if you have downloaded it .
If anyone one clean this up a bit more , go for gold and help out .
Cheers SDK NINJA