surfisup1000: You didn't talk to this woman at NZ post. She highly rude , arrogant, and confrontational in the extreme. She was more interested in denying my claim than in trying to find my package.
I wonder, maybe I should ask to speak to her manager.
Definitely escalate. It could be an issue of the address. But you shouldn't be copping the whole blame. As others have mentioned, this is standard practice and should still see the item through.