Me and my partner are away from eachother quite alot and we would love something like the sims we could do, something personal, fun and something that keep us 'together' in the game, so it will make us feel close as we can be or any chat room suggestions, safe, friendly and for adults?

We like the idea of the Sims but is there a way we can visit eachother on it?
We have tried many including our favourites, Smallworlds.com, some facebook application chatroom (most spoke another language though but had microphone and webcam option.) We have also tried lots others most seem to be for younger children though and never seem to have any older people searching for friendship, as the older ones seem to include alot of sexual activity. We don't mind download as long as it is safe but would prefer not to.

Any suggestions?