got the MX desktop a couple of days ago - very nice

I have managed to get bluetooth working with my P900 but only in a very painful way. I did have SP2 installed, but after a bit of research (and the fact it was also messing with my firewire drives) i uninstalled.

Im using COM4 for local, COM5 for client.
To connect and acheive successful syncing using the SE Sync station software i have to do the following:

1. right click phone connection tray icon
2. disconnect any active connections
3. connect COM4, wait a few seconds then connect COM5

i can then sync no problem.

However, while the phone connection icon shows a successful connection I cannot send items from my phone using bluetooth, usually the P900 cannot find the device, other times it finds but does not succeed in sending.

I then right click phone connection and disconnect COM4, this usually allows me to send from my phone.

then if i need to sync again i have to repeat the process

all very painful. Can anyone make this nicer for me please?