Tapo P300 is meant to work well, but only has 3 outlets on it.

I have been looking at one for a while, keen to see what others might be using.

The Tapo board works flawlessly but is a bit of a pain only having 3 outlets

I could get away with just 3, might have a look at it.

I'm also after one, but ideally one where it also has 4 distinct buttons for the outlets. Added bonus is one which can be reflashed to tasmota or esphome.

What a normal 4 way powerboard, with 4 Tapo P110M minis plugged into it. Be a bit clunky and $$ but technically would work.

I know you want local and ZigBee, but if you are ok with overseas with moderately quick delivery and ESPHome you could look at Athom units plugged into a regular power board, probably a slightly wide spaced one. I wouldn't put 10 amps through it constantly but for lighter loads mine have worked well for years. Probably not you want but maybe an ok fallback.

I thought about Athoms, I have one and it works well but they are a bit too wide for a normal power strip.

I little outside of your specific request, but I have a 4 + 1 power board (one outlet is always live, the others are individually switched via 433Mhz radio). If you've already got the 433Mhz for other things, it could be an option.