jmumby: I did ask, pretty much talked to me like a child. Told me I needed a dedicated server. Although I have had a static address off them before and it did as I expected. It is on a shared host but it resolves to the static IP.
jmumby: If you can recommend someone to take all of this BS of my hands I'm willing to listen
Ragnor:jmumby: If you can recommend someone to take all of this BS of my hands I'm willing to listen
Can't give you a good recommendation without a more info, so what do you need and who is this stuff with now?
What language does your website use eg php, asp.net etc?
What size storage for your website do you need?
What database does your website use eg: mysql, sqlserver etc?
How big is the database?
Are users mostly NZ or overseas? How much traffic does the site use?
(1) "all of this"
(2) how much you're currently paying, versus how much you're willing to pay