Handsomedan:
It's like when we're out for a breakfast with the family and the menu simply states Bacon and eggs with toast then it arrives and there's sauces and other runny/unwated guff on the plate that was not on the menu.
My kids don't like sauces and I don't like Mayo. Make it clear what you are serving!
Balsamic is the one that gets me I *loath* the stuff and its never listed on the menu, then your mince on toast turns up with that drizzled all over it.
I regularly ask and am simple amazed at how many dishes they put it on
