cddt:TeaLeaf:You're thinking of the Partner of a New Zealander Resident Visa. If she wants to work here, and you haven't lived together for 12 months, she should apply for the Partner of a New Zealander Work Visa. Alternatively, if she's happy not to work for a while, she can apply for the Partner of a New Zealander Visitor Visa. Means she can't work, but you can live together to get up to the 12 months to enable her to apply for the Partner of a New Zealander Resident Visa.
no regardless of marriage you have to have spent 12 months living together (im pretty sure i read that correctly)
Yep, that's what my wife did. Also - I paid her return airfare from LAX to AKL, she footed the cost from her state to LAX and she had a little money in her pocket to survive.
She was originally going to come for a three week holiday and go back, but she fell in love with NZ and decided to stay. She was studying at the time (not working) so it was slightly easier as opposed to giving up a large income from a well-paying job.
The first six months for her were quite tough. She struggled a bit understanding the NZ accent (although she could understand me fine) and I supported her financially at first. But eventually she landed a temporary job in a call centre talking to customers in the United Kingdom; her American accent was an asset in that regard. That lead to her being offered projects and eventually she got fulltime work.
@Tealeaf if your lady wants to come here, make sure she has enough money to support herself. Don't send her any cash - offer to buy the ticket instead (that way, if it is a scam, she'll back out when she realises you won't just hand over money). My 2c/suggestions.