Rikkitic:A good Samaritan has contacted me offering to do our shopping. She lives in town, we live a long way out, there is nothing but farms between here and there. I appreciate her offer but don't see why she should also have to bear the burden of driving all the way out here just for that. I would be happy to drive to her place and pick up the shopping at an agreed time if left outside. I would be in my car the whole time and have no contact with anyone. Is this acceptable?
Sounds like a great plan to me. I suggest adding in some sanitizing so you don't bring home an infection on your hands or the grocery items, so you're safe from infection. Also think about if something abnormal happens: a flat tire or car breakdown. Have a flexible plan for dealing with those scenarios.
Rules are for the guidance of the wise and obedience of fools. Don't be a fool and ignore the rule, and don't obey the rule foolishly. Be wise... figure out what the purpose of the rule is, and accomplish that in the best possible way.