Rikkitic:
I find it hard to fathom how someone as obviously intelligent and educated as you are, can seriously put up an argument built across such a gaping moral sinkhole. Have you ever met a frightened 15 year-old girl? Or even one as young as 12? Human females are capable of conception as soon as they hit puberty and the biological imperative doesn’t give a damn about ‘choice’ or family values or personal responsibility or the bible or any other moralistic crap. A child can be the victim of rape or incest and many are. A child can also engage in sexual activity without fully understanding the possible consequences. So can many adults, for that matter. Yet you seem to be saying that any female who becomes pregnant under any circumstance must be made to carry the foetus to term, regardless of the damage this does her. How can you possibly believe this?
Children who become pregnant are not that exceptional, but let’s pretend for a moment they are. You say the foetus ‘got there by you deciding to take part in an activity that will quite possibly result in you becoming pregnant. This outcome should not be a surprise. I'm not talking about any male making a decision for you.’
Actually, you are talking about an act that cannot occur without male participation. And just like all the other Moses males who feel they have some kind of special moral authority to make decisions for women, you gloss over that fact and make it all the woman’s problem. In any case, her ‘decision’, if that is what it was, is none of your damned business. If you really have such a huge need to appoint yourself guardian of the galaxy, why not start with all the underfed children already on the planet, instead of obsessing over those not yet born?
Please think about this some more. You seem to assume every unwanted pregnancy is the result of female carelessness during a moment of pleasure-seeking abandon. This is so far from the reality that it makes one wonder if you actually even know any women.
If you want to talk about responsibility, how about the responsibility to not bring another unwanted and unloved child into the world? How about the responsibility to not drive frightened and desperate girls to back-alley knitting needle abortionists? I don’t know how old you are, but I well remember the time when this was the only ‘choice’ for many. That is why safe medical abortion was made legal.
My reply was written in the context that I was replying to someone whom I assumed was not a frightened 15 year old. Perhaps I was mistaken. Perhaps I was wrong in assuming my response was to someone somewhat more mature/older than a 15 year old.
Your response to my post raises a whole lot of issues that need addressing in our society. Suggesting abortion as one solution to these problems is in my opinion abdicating our collective responsibility to fix those problems. There should be no frightened 15 year olds wanting to have an abortion.
I have no need to be the guardian of anything but when we have a society that is sees equality for race, gender etc as being so important, I see a major disconnect when that society does not value all life the same way.


