elpenguino:Our eldest kept up the charade for his little brother's sake for a good couple of years...he used to wink at us and smile knowingly while talking about Santa. They're only 20 months apart, but the eldest has always been a little...older.
Eva888: Granddaughter who I figured no longer believed in Santa this year because she interrogated me last Xmas about if he was real or not, FaceTimed me from Sydney. Said mummy was putting up a Christmas tree next week. I said we wouldn’t bother this year since she wasn’t going to be here to decorate it for us. Her eyes grew wide and she said, 'but where will Santa leave the presents?'
I think you're being generous. Kids may not strictly believe in 'the man' but as long as the goodies keep coming, why upset a good thing?
Like all parents I tried to keep the illusion going as long as plausible without going overboard. At a christmas party I was amused to hear my oldest say to the youngest "you know it's a man in a suit right?".
The oldest has now grown into a right little cynic - makes me smile.