So you all know, Im less than a novice in these matters, Im the level below Novice, which ive dubed Numpty!
Im the homeowner, broadband payer, and adminisrator on the wireless rouer. The reason why I asked the question in the Subject Line, is because its very odd how one of my housemates/partner admitted to another about a "live sex show" site he was looking at (he didnt know I heard this), and I know for a fact that that site has been blocked, or at least the site he referring to had blocked aspects, so those blocked aspects would show up as blocked on the router event logs for this persons IP address ID on the router!!! (but they show nothing)
Also Ive read a bit about Port Forwarding (but dont really understand it), can this be used as a method to bypass restrictions or get onto my computer somehow to find passwords or something? And if he has how can I tell? Where do I looked for anything suspicious on the router or my PC. A friend of mine had a little poke around his laptop and found hidden files which indicates he has been searching for "administrator passwords" etc so he is actively doing things to try and either get onto my computer via the router, OR bypassing the blocks somehow, as when he is online, he NEVER seems to show up in the event logs on the router!! Im asking for help to outwit this sneeky critter please. Thank you