Rikkitic:Handle9:When people say they are sorry for my situation (whatever that may be). What do they have to be sorry about? Did they intend for something negative to happen to me? I know people genuinely mean well but it is such a weird (and I find it fairly patronising) thing to write.
I'm also a bit annoyed that I read what people write rather than what they mean, but that's a story for another day.
Compassion is that uniquely human ability to experience the pain of another. Maybe those who say they are sorry are just trying to express compassion.
Sure. It still annoys me.


