http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/535/failcss.png
The First part of the image is the mouse over the catagory, it then stays as a drop-down at the first item in the menu like in the second part, but then when i try move to the 2nd item it disappears and appears as the 3rd part.
the basis of the page is in there
http://pastebin.com/B7sr22iU
and this is the CSS im using
http://pastebin.com/YhTbGB1x
My knowledge of CSS spans about 2 online tutorials, and this free example I gutted and reused (which may be where the problem lies

Thanks in advance for any help that can be given.
edit: also the bar doesn't sit on top of the image (which should be ignored its from an old test) but that's easy to fix with me just playing around