toprob:wasabi2k
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Do the benefits of the currently mandated vaccines massively outweigh the risks? By a mile.
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You are right, my kids are a lot safer than kids in the past, and I appreciate that. But as a parent I want to be able to gauge the risk for each jab, for MY child. My oldest reacted badly to one vaccination, I remember it being a very scary time, and I suspect that without medical intervention it might have been very serious. So when no 2 came along, it was more difficult to make the decision -- after all, even if I know that there is a huge benefit to the country overall, here we are talking about the health and safety of my child.
In the end we were offered a lower-strength version, which seemed a good compromise. by kid No 3 it was easier to make the decision to have her vaccinated, as we had learnt a lot by then.
It's all very clever to know what's right, and there are a lot of clever people here, but nobody should be forced to do anything which may harm their kid without weighing up the pros and cons. Personally, the health of any one of my kids outweighs all the rest of the kids in NZ.
You are not the person I am disagreeing with. You have a legitimate, medical reason to be concerned. You made an informed decision based on your past experience. Were you affected by this policy I would say you have an entirely legitimate reason to be excluded.
My issue is with people without any such reason not vaccinating their kids - and I believe this is who such a policy would target.