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Leads me to ask another question: will my boys ever be able to buy a house when they grow up, or is it a case of they haven't got a hope in hell, if things continue on their current path?
Or you could build a legacy and provide for them? Have a family business, use the infinite banking concept (IBC), start multiple streams of income and eventually, if you have to, loan them the money yourself so that they don't have to go to a traditional money lender.