My wife and I are looking in to the idea of building our own house. Admittedly this won't be for a few years, but I think the sooner we get started on researching what we need to do, the better.
I would like some feedback from people who have built their own homes. Things like:
- did you choose a home builder and premade plan from places like Stonewood, Golden Homes etc or did you get an architect in and designed something especially for you? If you did, how did you find their service, flexibility etc?
- What were the biggest hurdles you faced in the design/build of the house and how did you overcome them?
- How close were you to your budget? If you were over, how did this happen and how did you fix it? If under, what did you do to keep costs under budget?
- I'm wanting to ensure that the house is 'future proof' (for want of a better phrase) and energy efficient. How did you choose the materials, heating source, and technology that went into the house build e.g. Ethernet ports, centralised media cabinet, etc
- Solar panels? I've read lots about them and many different opinions on whether they are worthwhile. Your thoughts?
I'm sure I have a lot of other questions that I could add here, but work keeps distracting me

Thanks in advance.