ajobbins:grant_k: In many cases, it's very hard to describe something accurately enough simply with words and two dimensional photos. People want to eyeball it before committing to buying.
In a couple of cases like that where people have come to inspect the goods, and decided to buy on the spot, I have waited until they got home and then put up a Buy Now at the agreed price. The buyer clicks on it, Trade Me get their commission and everybody is happy.
In that case, an Internet auction probably isn't the right forum to sell the item.
Even if you do as you mention above, it's not fair on other bidders who haven't had the opportunity to view the item. They then complain (and rightly so). It's in order to create a level playing field for all parties.
That may be, but would you like to suggest a better alternative?
I have tried Sella, but hardly anybody uses it compared to Trade Me, so IMO, it is a waste of time. Trade & Exchange's website has suffered a similar fate.
Trade Me is pretty much the only game in town for selling stuff online, unless it's the sort of thing that would sell at a Garage Sale, in which case there are various community Facebook pages that can do the job for free. I agree that what I have done technically violates the T&C's of Trade Me, but so long as they get their commission, I don't imagine they will be too unhappy about it.
Regarding the point about it being unfair "on other bidders who haven't had the opportunity to view the item", it's the old story of the earlybird getting the worm. There are plenty of other auctions to choose from if they miss out on a particular one.