QVL lists for RAM means it will work regardless of CPU. Its more about ensuring the memory you are buying will work at its advertised speeds
For your use case the 3600 vs 4000 debate is going to be such a small difference in performance that its really not worth it. The numbers change in productivity work vs gaming FPS is why you go to higher speed ram on the current gen AMD systems.
And your quite on the money about getting gear from overseas for warranty and support purposes... id get local.