Jase2985:
the problem is you dont know it wasnt updated to handle your CPU. you said the dram light came on, and you removed the ram. this could have been the issue. but because you did the bios flash at the same time you will never know.
Which USB port did you use in the end? the manual and pictures says it should bt the port to the right (board lying flat) underneath (board vertical) of the HDMI port
There is no USB port labeled QFlash, its labeled BIOS.
I didn't describe my full troubleshooting process, which included many different combinations of RAM - one stick in different slots, different RAM sticks in the first slot, two sticks in the recommended slots, etc. As soon as the BIOS was updated all four sticks worked fine. So I think I have come to the correct conclusion.
I read the label of the back panel wrong. When looking at it upside down the label "Q Flash Plus" appears to be beside one of the standard USB ports. My mistake, but it could be clearer.