networkn: Well for me it's the same as any security feature or rule, if I am not doing anything I am not supposed to, this won't bother me in the slightest. If they want to read the emails between my wife and I, well more power to them. Personally I think they have better things to do.
Post your email account login + password so we can have a look to then, please. :) (Or feel free to PM them to me)