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things i've done
6) i've tried rebooting it by taking out the battery, but nothing happens when i restart
How long did you take the Battery out for?
I recommend at least 10mins
If you are really worried about stuffing up a reflash and you live in Auckland pm me and I can do it, and if you want show you.
I have flashed my SII and friends more times than I can remember. Also have flashed other phones as well. And have never bricked any (touch wood lol)