I'm pretty sure that the ABB relay will do what you want, but here's a more configurable Schneider option: https://www.se.com/ww/en/product/RMNF22TB30/nfc-3-phase-monitoring-relay-harmony-8a-2co-multifunction-208480v-ac/
Current sensors may work but would only work once the motors are drawing current - you'd have to turn the contactors on, detect phase rotation (and writing/debugging the software for that is going to be fun), then stop & restart one of the motors once it's already rotating. That's plugging - you need to upsize contactors and potentially consider motor duty limits because it's a lot rougher than straight DOL.