Locally shot dashcam footage of a tail-heavy trailer. This could have easily caused a multiple fatality accident.
I don't believe that the very low maximum tongue load rating for the Tiguan is because of the DSG or the structural attachment of the bar to the car body, they're lightweight cars, if you put 250kg tongue weight on them, the front suspension would be raised like a see-saw, hit a slippery/wet bit of road on a corner and you'll go straight ahead, ESC won't help you.
In the USA, the Tiguan is sold with a 2,200lb (1,000kg) tow rating.