SaltyNZ:
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Does your SO send you to the dog house when you spend a huge amount of time and effort scoping out a project so there aren't any surprises once you are ready to start it? Because in your analogy, that's what happens. Not that I disagree with your assessment of governance in this specific case, but in general.
If I've committed to buying the vehicle based on DYOR and the architect, who has to be paid for redesigning the garage, says that the only way to do this is to buy the next door property? I cant imagine the time in the dog house. Probably banned from buying cars for life. And rightly so.
But I'm sure my SO isnt so stupid as to let it get so far. I'm sure my kids could work out how dumb it'd be to spend more on fixing the garage than the car itself.
The board should be sacked. In its entirety. No excuses.