I am using wap connection with my cingular phone as bluetooth dialup modem for my ipaq.  the connection dies whenever a page is done loading etc.  do I need to ad cingular software to my ipaq?

also is there a way to keep messages from telling me its dialing?  Of course its trying to connect I just told it to!  It is just annoyning when you have a sketchy connection and have top keep seeing the dialup box