Yes, I know, I know. This subject has been done to death. BUT I STILL CAN'T GET THE DAMN THING TO WORK!!

Problem: There isn't a 'bluetooth devices' icon in the control panel. I did not previously use the bluetooth with sp1, so those fixes don't work and despite looking at every site under the sun (inc microsoft, here and google) I can't find a solution.

I'm wanting to backup my data from my 6230i Nokia phone to my computer, without having to pay $80 for a cable that I'll probably only use once.

What steps can I take to get the windows bluetooth stack working on my computer?

P.S. Have tried downloading all current updates from microsoft.