GV27:
For me the thing that got me on this was the suggestion not having to pay for lunches for school was as much as a reward for good parents who would have done that by default as anything to do with crappy parents who aren't going to and never will.
So why shouldn't parents who are actually looking after their kids catch a break? The difference is kids actually get fed.
At the end of the day, there isn't a perfect system. How do you track such things?
I send my kids to school with a good lunch, what if I send them to school with a average lunch, or a poor lunch, vs no lunch? How much reward do you give parents for doing their actual job?
The reward I get for feeding my kids properly, is that my kids are fed properly. We are trying to help the kids who's parents can't or won't.