After lots more calling round the recommendation I've had that doesn't involve SMA is a GoodWe 5000-EH mounted outdoors (under a roof) with HVDC batteries. The main reason for going with SMA, apart from the built-like-a-tank construction, was that almost everyone else does hybrids which causes problems with the fact that the PV inverter had to be some way away from the battery inverter which ruled out most hybrids, e.g. the Victrons use 48 or 57.6V for batteries which isn't going to work well over a longer cable run.
The SMA-based plan was for Pylontech batteries based on the lengthy ITP battery tests in Australia, but the recommendation here was for BYD HVM or HVS battery boxes, which certainly look a lot easier to deal with than the Pylontechs, they'll stack up nicely in the basement utility area while the Pylontechs needed rack mounting and complex wiring.