MikeAqua:
Fred99:
MikeAqua:
*-ism is quite acceptable though, so long as it's directed toward 'white' people or men (except gay-men).
Oh dear. No it isn't.
People who think like this are out there.
I have had a conversation with a friend-of-a-friend (social scientist, shaper of young minds, very left of centre), in which she explained to me the *-ism hierarchy.
Essentially her explanation boils down to this: A white-straight-'cisgender'-male, can never be a victim of any *-ism.
Some experiences I have had which were pretty-clearly racially motivated violence directed at me were, according to her "not-racist". I just can't compute that.
I read an interesting article which detailed the different perspectives of 4 people who had transitioned from female to male. This included one person who had previously identified as both a lesbian and a radical feminist. It's an interesting commentary on the directions of prejudice and in particular on what prejudices you do and don't see depending on who you are.
People who think like that are few in number - and anyway it's more an academic argument about words than practically relevant. You should perhaps ask her if white cisgender men can be victims of ageism, classism or elitism, plenty seem to suffer from alcoholism and a few from dwarfism.
If you were subject to a violent act because you were white, then you were the victim of racism. Why that happened (and what to do to prevent it happening) rather than the word used is the issue.